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Do vs. Be – Law and Relationships

There is a long term debate running, going back centuries, between religious people and Jesus followers.

If you have been around the “Christian” organism for any length of time you have been exposed to this virus.

The division has many descriptors: works righteousness, saved by faith, law vs. grace, etc.

As I live and journey in faith with my brothers and sisters, I often refer to this debate as “do vs. be.”

The two camps, that represent the two positions, mostly talk past one another. But here is a brief synopsis.

The “do” side; represents law, doing the law, doing good works, obedience, right beliefs, right thinking, with the emphasis upon ‘me’ doing the law. The big idea is simply this: reduce following Jesus to “do this” and “don’t do that.” The dangerous side is this: legalism, self righteousness, a sense of “God owes me” for all my ‘right behavior’ and defining who is in and who is out. Why do so many people end up in this camp? Because it is easier.

The “be” side; represents relationships, growing in the likeness of Jesus, relating to others through the lens of Jesus’ love for them and us. The big idea is: Relationships define our existence – our relationship with Jesus and our relationship with others. The dangerous side is this: a blind eye to truth in the name of maintaining relationships, co-dependency, self reliance and self righteousness. Why do so few people choose this camp? Because it is harder.

Doing the Law is always easier than being in a relationship.

We humans trend toward sloth. This is why Jesus said in Matthew 7:13-14, “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”

From the Garden of Eden on down we have chosen to ‘do’ God rather than be in a relationship with God. One of the blogs that I follow is by a guy named Casey Tygrett. You can find the full post here: Casey Tygrett

In one of his more recent posts he wrote this:

    In a culture that prizes law over wisdom – yes, even the Christian culture – we are constantly looking for what we can and cannot do because it makes things easier. It makes it easier to figure out who is with us and who is against us. It makes it easier to rate our day on a scale of 1 to 5 (well, the anger today was in the 2 range, so I’m going to turn off the divine wrath radar for today) and it makes it easier to read sacred texts that challenge our assumptions because then we can simply find the legality and push ourselves to believe it.

    Then, in a stunning reversal, life happens. The law stops short, here and there, leaving cliff-like gaps between belief and action that take the very breath – the very pneuma out of our lungs.
    Law doesn’t keep our relationships together. Law doesn’t save our marriage. Law doesn’t help us know what to do when we feel different when we feel for God.

Powerful words. Poignant. As I said, most trend toward law, because it is easier. The problem is that we humans also trend toward choosing either or, when what really is needed is both.

Many begin a relationship with Jesus, but then it becomes difficult and challenging. Discipleship of Jesus requires becoming less like us and more like Jesus. Next “most” look around and they see their own foils and fables in most other so called Christians, and they seem to not be working on their relationship. Rather they have chosen the path of law. So the newer believer, assumes the mantle of law, because it is easier, and because it looks like the thing that s/he is supposed to do, because most others are ‘doing’ it that way.

A disciple of Jesus; begins with a relationship with Jesus, and never lets go. The law comes in not to define the boundaries of the sandbox, but as a means of faithfulness and love and devotion in light of our relationship with Jesus. We are transformed into a follower whose inclination toward sin is deterred by the thought, “I love Jesus too much, my relationship with Him is too important to me, to abandon it for a temporary thrill.” It is the relationship with Jesus that informs our view of sin, and as the relationship grows, that sin that was once so attractive, has now begun to tarnish.

There is so much more to understanding discipleship and doing vs. be, I will be exploring more in future posts.

I would love to hear from you, your thoughts on your struggle with doing faith vs. being in a relationship with Jesus.

    Consider the following…
    – Where have I chosen “doing” in my faith rather than “being” in a relationship with Jesus?
    – How do I live out a relationship with Jesus that ‘fulfills’ the law but does not value the laws above relationships?

Patience With Your Discipleship

Sunrise over mountainOne morning, I decided to get up early and watch the sun rise over the mountains. I was on retreat with some brothers in the faith, and as we rolled out of bed at 4:30 am, there was a mixture of excitement for how God would meet us, muffled by the cobb webs of lack of sleep. I arrived at my spot in the dark and sat down to spend time in silence and solitude. As the dark gave way to light, I was distracted by the thoughts of wishing the sun would come up, and break the top of the mountain that blocked my view. The sun was up, behind the mountain, so I could see all the landscape around me; but the sun still had not broken the mountain. I was growing more and more impatient. How much longer? How are the rest of the guys doing? My silence and solitude had turned into competing voices in my head. When I was finally able to quiet the voices long enough, a “still small voice” said to me “be patient with Me.” I had heard from God and I resolved myself to quiet my spirit and to be patient for the Sun/Son to break the mountain top. It finally happened. The sun broke the mountain top, beams of light spread around me, warming my face, like a soft touch. Then the small voice said, “Be patient with me, because I am patient with you.” I broke. I wept bitter tears of sorrow and grief for all the times that I had rushed my journey, seeking “spiritual growth” on my time table with what energy I had left over.

“Be patient with me, because I am patient with you.”

In our world, there are precious few moments of silence. Even less are moments of stillness and solitude. Most seek to avoid all three. Our world lies to us that when we are still, we are unproductive. When we are silent we risk being “not heard.” When we are alone, there is something wrong with us.
Jesus practiced all three silence, stillness, solitude. We are to practice all three. It takes being patient with ourselves. We can not be perfect at spiritual practices over night. Doing the hard work of discipleship takes practice and patience. The voices that tell us that we are not not “spiritual” enough, usually are the voice of then enemy trying to derail our discipleship journey.

If in your journey to be more like our Rabbi, Jesus, you find yourself frustrated with the pace, be patient with yourself, and be patient with Jesus, because Jesus is patient with you. You will find that the beauty of the journey [in silence, solitude, stillness] will deepen your intimacy and become the strength of your relationship with Jesus.

Discipleship Priorities – Time and Energy

Time Energy manipulationWhen I think of priorities, I think, “keeping the main thing, the main thing.”

Discipleship is all about time and energy.

Time with our Rabbi, Jesus.

Energy expended in the daily journey of following in His foot steps.

Radical obedience to His teaching.

There is no short cut. There is no quick fix. There is no fast tracking a relationship with Jesus.

Discipleship has always been about time and energy.

Today’s world is set up against discipleship. Yet, discipleship is what our world needs above all else.

Dallas Willard; once said, “There is nothing wrong with the church, that discipleship won’t fix.” Take out the word “church” and substitute any noun or pronoun and the truth still remains. There is nothing wrong with the world, with me, with you, with our small group, with this job, with our politics, with our families, that discipleship won’t fix.

“There is nothing wrong with our personal lives that discipleship won’t fix. The only caveat is that it takes time and energy.”

In the same life pumping artery, there is nothing wrong with our personal lives that discipleship won’t fix. The only caveat is that it takes time and energy. A “fix” may be what we desire, it may be what we have been shaped by our world to expect, but discipleship does not work that way.

From the very beginning, we humans, were designed for relationships. God told Adam, it was not good for him to be alone. God was in fellowship with Adam and Eve. A relationship can not be fast tracked.

In one of my other posts, KISS Principle For Discipleship or It’s All About Relationships I outlined the process necessary for building any relationship. Honesty builds trust and trust builds love. While one can look at this and see the truth of the journey, most tend to ignore the Time & Energy factors.

Think about how a relationship is built with a spouse. A person spends time and pours energy into getting to know someone. They open up and risk a small amount of honesty with that person. Then they sit back and observe, what does that person do with my honesty? Do they honor it, protect it, or do they make fun of or criticize me? If the honesty is received, they begin to build trust. With trust comes more honesty. With more honesty comes more trust. This pattern is repeated over time, with above average energy. Questions come to the surface, “Is this the one? Do I love them? Could I love them? Do they love me?

Eventually, a love relationship grows. This relationship journey happens the same way with our Jesus. The infatuation stage in a human relationship tends to mute our awareness to the amount of time and energy that it takes to build the relationship. Conversely, in discipleship, we become painfully aware of the amount of time and energy required to be in a relationship with Jesus. We want to be fully developed spiritually, rock solid in our faith. We detest being prone to painful sin patterns that we have practiced over many years.

I am reminded of the stanza from the hymn, “Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing” where it says, “prone to wander, Lord, I feel it, prone to leave the God I love. Here’s my heart, O, take and seal it, seal it for Thou courts above.”

As you journey in discipleship, reminders are needed along the narrow road, of the time and energy that is a prerequisite of every relationship. Nothing can be substituted for time with Jesus. Nothing is more deserving of our energy, than Jesus. In Jesus’ day, discipleship was a full time occupation. Today, we are called to nothing less.

Holy Week and Discipleship

Jesus cruxified and the cup
Holy Week – the time period of Palm Sunday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday, and Easter Sunday morning, exists for those who call themselves disciples.

But why? Because disciples are called to remember, but with a purpose.

Allow me to unpack that statement.

Historically, Jesus asked his disciples to remember him in this way, when he at the Passover meal [Luke 22:15-22], transformed that meal into a tool/symbol for us to remember him and his sacrifice.

For thousands of years has used this time as a way to remember and to prepare new members of the faith family for inclusion in the life of the body of Christ.

Today, disciples are called upon to remember. It keeps us grounded in at least two aspects of our journey. First, we remember who Jesus is. Second, we remember who we are in relationship to what Jesus has done for us.

This is where Paul can write in 1 Corinthians 6:20 that we were bought at a price. A disciple wants to be like Jesus. We remember who Jesus is – what he has done. We remember his attitude, his prayers, his humanness, his faithfulness to His Father’s will, his grace. Each and every word and action of Jesus from Psalm Sunday through the resurrection, informs our journey.

Disciples are made, in the remembering, to remember with a purpose.

But remembering isn’t simply an exercise in motivation for right living; for that only serves to end up in living like Pharisees. We remember that the point of all that Jesus did and said, in this intense time, was for us, personally. Jesus came to save the world, yes. But Jesus also came to suffer for you. Jesus also came to be tortured for me. Jesus lived out his words in John 15:13, Jesus laid down his life, for you. Jesus laid down his life for me. You and I are that valuable to Jesus.

We are valuable because we are valued by Jesus

Living as a disciple in today’s world means a constant barrage of messages that we are not valuable unless we look a certain way, have a certain talent, drive a certain car, wear certain clothes, and are adored by people who want to be like us. And while most of us never attain value, as defined by the world, a disciple remembers that our value is derived not from who we are or what we do, but from Jesus. We are valuable because we are valued by Jesus.

During this Holy Week, join me in the journey of discipleship as…
– We cheer with the crowd, Hosanna in the highest, blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord.
– We continue to cheer, Hosanna, even when the journey doesn’t go where we want it to go.
– We gather around the table, with the apostles, and we give thanks, take and eat the body, and drink the blood.
– We gather around with those whom God has given to us to pour out our lives into, to disciple, knowing that betrayal is a risk and misunderstanding is likely.
– We join in horror, with the disciples, at how cruel the powers that be treat our Savior.
– We join in horror, like the disciples, at a world that teaches war to children and traffics in human beings.
– We feel the depth of despair, disbelief and fear as the disciples run and hide for their lives.
– We know that our Jesus understands our despair, disbelief and fear and does not condemn us, but journeys with us to “over come the world.”
– We wonder, along with disciples of the past, present and future, at the true meaning of the resurrection. Can it be? Death defeated!
Disciples are made, in the remembering, to remember with a purpose.

May You Be Covered In The Dust of Your Rabbi

It may seem like a strange saying.  After all, dust is considered old, dirty, of no use.
The other phrase, “Come, follow me.” is directive, self assured and compelling.
The first phrase was a saying among brothers, years ago: from one disciple to another disciple.  It was meant as a compliment and a challenge.
The other phrase was a saying from a learned scholar, said to a wanna be student, because they believed the student had demonstrated potential.
The big idea as a disciple was to be as much like your Rabbi as possible.  You wanted to know and do and be like the Rabbi.  To be following so closely to your Rabbi, that as his foot left his footprints, your feet fell into his prints, and the dust kicked up along the way covered you.
The big idea as a Rabbi was that the student could and should be like him.
My Rabbi is Jesus.  You can like that, not like it, think it backward, small minded, weak, bigoted, or brilliant.  For me, I want to be covered in the dust of following what Jesus is alive and doing in our world today.
You may not see it, you may deny it, you may debate it, but I follow.
Jesus was able to meet people where they were at and love them.  Not only did he meet them where they were at, but he believed in them and they knew it.  From that love and belief, he was able to call them to be more than they were at the moment.
He has done that for me.  I am more that I could be,  because  I am loved.  I have someone who believes in me – not for what I am, but for the true reality that I have what it takes to be like Him.
Over 2000 years ago, Jesus called some teenage boys, that were drop outs of the current day’s educational system, and He said, come follow me.  Someone believed in them, so they followed.
That is who I am called to be: a disciple of Jesus, who believes in the potential of others to become like the Rabbi.
This gives meaning to Paul’s words that he writes in  1 Corinthians 1:1 NIV “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”  Paul is not an egoist, he simply understands the nature of discipleship.  We follow our Rabbi Jesus to become more like Him, and we invite others to join our journey in following.
This is a new adventure for me in the blog-o-sphere.  I begin my journey following, seeking to be covered in the dust of my Rabbi.

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